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By Chandrama Anderson

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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ...  (More)

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"I" Statements that are Actually "You" Statements
Apr 23, 2021 8:40 am
Comments: 5 | Views: 4,135

No, that's not a typo. I hear these a lot when I encourage partners to use "I statements" or to share how s/he is feeling. Here are examples of what to... More
"What Did You Do?"
Apr 16, 2021 9:05 am
Comments: 4 | Views: 4,012

On a recent warm afternoon, I noticed a man riding his bike with a huge mixed bouquet of flowers in his basket. I watched as he turns north from Willow onto Middlefield,... More
Porn
Apr 9, 2021 8:29 am
Comments: 5 | Views: 5,735

I realized I have not written about porn, and that it would be a good idea to do so. This could be a huge topic with lots of offshoots, but mostly I want to share... More
Love (not Zero)
Apr 2, 2021 7:39 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 3,771

Once while soaking up the beauty of Taos, New Mexico, and the surrounding mountains, valleys, rivers, Rio Grande gorge, aspens, wild flowers, desert terrain, thunder... More
Trust
Mar 26, 2021 6:46 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 5,705

"Trust is habitual reciprocity that becomes coated by emotion." - David Brooks*

What a fantastic definition of trust. I am often asked, "What is... More
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