By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ... (More)
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How Did You See Your Parents Treat One Another?
Jul 8, 2022 10:58 am
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If you want to know how your partner will treat you under stress, watch how his/her parents treat each other.
So, why am I asking you this question? Because... More
Fidelity, Infidelity, Loyalty, Luck
Jul 2, 2022 6:30 pm
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I wanted to re-share this popular and important post that I wrote in 2014.
I just read "Vow," by Wendy Plump, in which she writes about her own and... More
Gifts and Belongings
Jun 25, 2022 10:27 am
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Of my 5 Love Languages, and my husband’s too, gifts are the last of five. We mostly choose to do something together for birthdays and holidays (quality time,... More
If You Listen, S/he Will Speak
Jun 17, 2022 3:27 pm
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Conversely, if you don’t listen, s/he will stop trying to communicate, connect, engage. Do you feel lonely, sad, unseen, unheard, misunderstood? Or do you feel... More
Best Laid Plans . . . Yes, I Got Covid, Too
Jun 3, 2022 10:24 am
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We've all been through best laid plans going to hell in one way or another in the last two years.
As I wrote last week, my husband retired on Friday. I had planned... More